That’s not good. Nah man you aren’t alone. I hate who he turned out to be and what he did. I told him to f*ck off and never contact me again and he acted so shocked/offended. I never saw a need to contact them again when it was over, and I took away any possible temptation to talk to me that they might have had by changing phone numbers or email addresses. So a few months after break-up, I decided whole-heartedly to move on. He/she has moved on. it's been a year since than. I personally felt that after he had chance to 'cool down' he would've contacted me, I was wrong of course. I emailed him, telling that when I think of him, it's with gratitude that he pushed for the divorce. I know you guys will probably think this means that I WANT him to contact me, but this isn't true at all. You wanted to see what life was like without me as a partner. It’s only been a little over a month but it’s excruciating. I was so unhappy with him. How could any human with empathy do that? If he wanted to find me he could, he still had my number at the time of us breaking up but he's probably deleted it since (I deleted his). I think I cried solidly for 3 months, I didn't even celebrate my birthday. One day, just after we'd arrived home from a short break for the 2016 New Year he sent me a message dumping me. From my experience, it’s usually a form of “grass is greener”, but in reverse. r/ExNoContact is a great sub for this. I told him to never contact me again. my ex kept in contact w/ me for a while after the break up and told me he wanted to try working it out again. Nope, you are not alone. My honest answer is that if you haven't heard from him, perhaps he's reconciled it's over, even moved on. I don’t think he/she even loved you at all. He wouldn't meet up with me, either. I made a mistake and went on a txt message binge. He was my FIRST ever boyfriend and we'd spent 4 years together. Six months is a longtime. I know this event changed me in a way where I would lash out at him over the slightest things, not at the start of the relationship but more so up until a year ago I would let the little things bother me. Love Doctor, my ex broke up with me 9 months ago. I was literally a mess, I've never felt anything like it. He contacted me on a group mail- didn’t want to respond - at all. Okay. I have conducted a survey from my past clients and asked them how long it took their exes to reach out. Lol. I've passed two birthdays, his and mine, a potential anniversary date, thanks giving and a Christmas, and then, a New Year. People move on, and obviously so did he. Most likely if anything she's doing well, so I also don't think I'll be getting contact either. I'm pretty sure they'll contact you again in some disappointing and confusing way... trust me, it's a million times better that they AREN'T reaching out to you. Yesterday I sent a brief good bye email, no begging or blaming just a good bye. Monday, one before this last one, he contacted me, and left a message for me … In a week I will move to a new city with my boyfriend (Career opportunities) and I don't think I'lll ever see my ex again, but that's fine because I don't want to. My ex is a narcissistic piece of shit, unfortunately narcissists don’t feel empathy or remorse. And then guess what happened? Maybe he did not like you as much as you did, maybe he realised he was an asshole and did not want to bother you, maybe, maybe, maybe. No Happy Thanksgiving No Merry Christmas no nothing she is gone.. it makes the healing process so much faster. it makes me feel so alone, especially knowing he was able to move on from me so fast and I’m still sobbing almost nightly, close to 3 months later. I haven't seen him in a year, I don't even remember what his voice sounds like. *raises hand* it's been 4 months for me and my ex hasn't reached out a single time. 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